Do we really love our kids?

Today morning a friend of mine shared a clip which is doing rounds on internet; Delhi Agra expressway accident. While discussing the reason behind this; bad infrastructure, no safety rules, pollution and many more he apparently said, ‘It is because of the uneducated population of the country.” My instant question was, “What do you do for road safety? Do you even wear safety belts while in other’s car? Do other people in your car wear? Or most importantly does your daughter sit in a car seat? The answers for all of this were NO.

Seeing an incident it is very easy to blame others and most common target is uneducated class of the country; but what is the educated class doing about it? Practically nothing!
We say; we love our kids, most of the moms sacrificed their career, dedicated most part of the day for kids and the list is endless. But do we really love them? Do we care about their safety? Just kid proofing the house and ensuring they do not fall off from a slide in the garden is not safety. All of us travel a lot and it is a known fact that Indian roads are in worst of the condition all round the year. We have petitions signed and all that stuff but does that mean we can avoid the pathetic conditions of the roads. We still have to travel on these 
roads with our kids.


Are we using the car seat for our kids? Are we wearing belts when we are not driving? Most of the people will say NO. When you asked them the reason; they will say there is no such rule, because my friends are not doing, my friend’s kids are not using the car seat so why should I, and most commonly used is; “Chalta Hai.”

Fact: Car accidents taking place at a speed more than 30km/hr have the effect of causing serious injuries to kids and adults.

A good enough fact for us to make a choice; do you want to set an example by following some safety standards or do you want to blame the government and authorities for not having such rule.

Why don’t we as so called “Educated Mass” take that initiative without someone having a rule imposed on us? Or do we need this in writing in some religious book?

Lastly, I would say instead of just sharing this let us start implementing the same and reply with a comment saying #Icare; just to show people and authorities that if you do not but we do care; we do not need your rule for our kids safety.


Lastly, I would like to thank my friend for starting a discussion with me and yes he did agree that he does care and will implement from now on.

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